First Full Week - Check

Lawson's first full week of Kindergarten is behind him. It was an ok week, but not great. I think the hyper issues are presenting themselves very quickly and we are already beginning the new strategies to help him keep it under control. I spoke with his teacher yesterday afternoon and I think the key to his success will be her - she is great!

He is having a very hard time staying in his seat and sitting still at group time. He wants to wander around or wiggle and it disturbs the other children in the class. Mrs. Cline has given him a "wiggle cushion" but she said he hasn't quite gotten the idea of it yet. She is going to explain it more to him in the upcoming week and hopefully it will help.

I am also going to start a chart system at home to go along with his marks at school - this will also implement a reward system and give him a reason to do what he needs to do. I am sure it will be a long process to get him where he needs to be and for him to be able to stay in his seat when he is supposed to be there. But, with the support I feel I have from his teacher, it should also be a relatively easy process.

As far as life in general, it is good. We are busy, as usual, but I am very proud of myself because I have made it a point to have Lawson home, bathed and in bed by 8:00 pm every night. Every now and then there are exceptions, but not usually. He doesn't sleep well anyway so I want him in bed as early as possible so he can get some rest for each day.

I am learning discipline along with Lawson which will be good in the long run for both of us. I should have kept us on a schedule from the start, but we just love being on the go! I am also trying to organize this crazy house in the evenings after I get him settled...we have way too much stuff and not nearly enough room for it - I think this happens to everyone, especially if you have a kid ;)

I am also working very hard on my Thirty-One business and it continues to bless me! I have four wonderful ladies on my team now and I will promote to Senior Consultant this month. I never thought it would be such a wonderful blessing when I started, but I have prayed for it to be and I know God is answering that prayer. We definitely need the extra income it provides and the friendships I have made and am continuing to make are priceless. It is wonderful working for a company that is so good to their consultants and to be able to spread the love of my Jesus through this business - that is the greatest blessing of all!

So, life goes on and I keep feeling blessed - I hope you are too!

Tahra

My Big Boy

Our first 1/2 day of Kindergarten is behind us - one more half day to go and then he is officially in school! He had a good day today and said he really enjoyed everything they did. According to him they played, colored, at lunch in that big room and then played again...sounds like a pretty good day to me - ha! He did say he didn't listen to the teacher one time but then he did - make sense of that. There were no notes in his bag about his behavior so, I will take that as a good sign ;)

Too Excited to Sleep

Tomorrow is the first day Lawson will go to Kindergarten alone and he should be asleep! He laid down in his room at 7:00, an hour earlier than normal, and is still not asleep - even after the Melatonin. I know he is very excited about tomorrow because the first time he got out of bed was to help me pack his lunch for tomorrow. He has since been up about 3 more times for various reasons.

While packing his lunch he told me he is so excited about going to school tomorrow because he "will get to play and learn to read and meet new friends and all kinds of other fun things"! I am very glad he is as excited as he is and I pray he keeps the excitement up after he gets into the swing of going on a regular basis. Hopefully after the initial excitement wears off it will be easier for him to get to sleep - I hope!

I love that he is so excited about going to school and I pray he will find friends quickly. He is very outgoing but sometimes the ADHD gets in the way of friends because it also makes him very cranky and hard to get along with at times. I can't wait to pick him up after his 1/2 day tomorrow and hear all about his first day. My heart is already happy just thinking about it <3

He got a new stuffed T-Bone at Kohl's today and he
insisted I take his picture with him :)

New Adventures for Lawson

This weekend has marked yet another first in the life of Lawson - sleepovers. Since he was little, Lawson would not spend the night anywhere but home; he even hated being on a trip with us because, come bed time, he wanted to go home. Before he turned 2, he would get physically ill by the third day of our trip and halfway home, he would be fine - he actually got "homesick".

The past year, he has spent the night with my grandmother one time, and that was an accident. It was while Charlie was in the hospital and he fell asleep waiting on my Dad to come pick him up. Well, Thursday night he decided he was going to have a sleepover with Nana. So, I got his stuff together and told her to call me when he got ready to come home, which is usually around 9:00 pm. As 9:00 pm came and went, he was still at Nana's; I looked out the door and noticed there were no lights at her house...he actually spent the night!

This opened up a whole new door for him because Friday night he decided he was going to have a sleepover with Papaw. This one didn't go as smoothly as the first night. Around 9:15 he came walking in the door because he decided he wanted to come home. He was here for a few minutes and then something made him decide to go back; he said "Ok, I will go back and try again" - it worked because I didn't see him until the next day! Dad said he went back to his house, laid down and was asleep in about 5 minutes.

Saturday night comes around and he decided he again wants to stay with Nana - and he did. He was planning to go to church with her anyway so it was easier for him to sleep at her house. I gave him a bath, got his pj's on, and sent him on his way with his church clothes and a movie to watch before bed.

My little man is growing up - and too fast! It feels weird to even sleep without him in the house and makes me realize how independent he is becoming. I feel sadness and joy at the same time. The sadness comes from the fact he is growing up and, some day, he won't need me at all; the joy from knowing that he is growing up and, some day, he won't need me at all...when that day comes, I will know I did something right!

Kindergarten - The Beginning

Tuesday night was Kindergarten meet and greet and Dandridge Elementary. Lawson was very excited about meeting his new teacher, Mrs. Cline, and seeing his classroom. He was able to meet a couple of other students he will be in class with and explore some of the different learning areas set up.

On Friday, we had a one-on-one meeting with his teacher. I was able to sit down and talk to her about any questions/concerns I might have. It was great to speak with her and learn some of the great things she has planned for her class this year. I know Lawson is going to love her class and all the things he will be learning about throughout the year.

It is hard to believe my little man is going to be in school, but I am so excited to see what all he brings home with him! He is thirsty for knowledge and I am blessed to be on this journey of life with him...God gave me an awesome gift when he sent me my awesome little guy and I cherish every moment I get to watch him grow and learn!

This was his favorite part of Kindergarten night at DES :)

The beginning of a new routine...

Tonight marked the beginning of Lawson's new bedtime routine - it went better than expected but not great! I have decided that 8:00 pm will be his bedtime on school, just for the simple fact that sometimes it will take him a good hour to go to sleep (thank you ADHD). Even with the melatonin, sometimes his mind will just not wind down very fast.

He went down pretty fast tonight because he was so tired. He wasn't in the best of moods today anyway, and he just did not want to listen at all. So, the new routine got off to a rocky start because he got put to bed in trouble. Luckily, I can turn a movie on for him and he is out pretty quick - the exact opposite of what doctors tell you to do, but it works for us! You learn the tricks with an ADHD kid and I have an inside scoop on that one ;)

If we can figure out how to get him to sleep through the night without waking up and getting into our bed, it will be great :) But, for now, I will enjoy that snuggle I get when he wakes in the middle of the night looking for Mommy and Daddy!

Hopefully each night will get a little better and a little easier - and the routine will be a lot smoother as he gets into his new school groove!

Sometimes it takes a while, but he finally gives in to sleep!

Everyone has "stuff"

A couple of days ago I got in a slump and decided to have a small pity party for myself. Certain things weren't going the way I planned and some other things had crept up that added to the craziness of life. So, I was sitting around just being bummed about the "stuff" that had me in my funk.


After talking to my awesome Godparent's and a good friend, I pulled myself out of my slump and decided this...everyone has "stuff"! Some people have little stuff and others have big stuff - but, no matter what size the "stuff", God will take care of it all!


I may not have everything I want and I may not get to do everything I would like to do, but I have everything I need and I am blessed beyond measure! So, from now on I am remembering that someone out there has "stuff" worse than mine and I am praying for everyone's "stuff" no matter how small! Will you join me?